Intimacy & Solitude (Paper)
出版时间:
1996-03
版次:
1
ISBN:
9780393313611
定价:
204.10
装帧:
平装
开本:
其他
纸张:
其他
页数:
240页
正文语种:
英语
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WhydoIgofromonerelationshiptoanotherwithoutfindingwhatIyearnfor?WhyamIrestlessorcriticalwiththoseIlove-anduneasywithmyowncompanywhenI'malone?Isitpossibletobeclosetosomeoneelse-andstillbemyself?Beingalone.Relatingtoothers.Bothhavethepotentialforimmensepersonalsatisfaction.Bothcanseempainfullyelusivetobalance-orachieve.AsStephanieDowrick,awriterandpsychotherapist,shows,intimacyandsolitudearenotopposingexperiences.Theyaredifferentexpressionsofoursameself.Wecannotusefullyaddressourdifficultiesinrelationshipswithoutalsoconsideringhowwespendourtimealone.Norcanwetakeon"self-awareness"inanymeaningfulwaywithoutquestioningwhatweexpectfromothers.Solitudeisaverydifferentexperiencethanloneliness,andsexisonlyonewaytoexpressintimacy.Inunderstandingour"self,"wemustexploretherolesofmenandwomen.Inunderstandinghowtocare,wecannotignorewhoandhowwedesire,andwherewelookformeaning.Bringingintimacyandsolitudetogetherallowseachofustounravelwhyweneedothersandwanttobefree;whywewanttobeunderstoodandguardoursecrets;whywewanttobeloved"forourselves"andyetmayhavedifficultyacceptingwhoweare.IntimacyandSolitudeisaself-discoverybookwithararebreadthofinsight,andagentleinsistencethatwecanandmusttakeresponsibilityforourselvesinorderfullytoexpressourcareandloveforothers.Dowrickdrawsfromawiderangeofpsychoanalyticandspiritualsourcestotracethedevelopmentofthecapacitiestobecomfortablyaloneandwithothersfrominfancyonwards.ButasDowrickemphasizesthroughavarietyofmoving,personalstoriesdrawnfromherownandothers'experiences,nomatterhowfarfromidealourearlyexperienceswere,norhowfearfulwemightatthismomentbe,totheendoflifeitremainspossibletodeveloptheself-acceptanceessentialtosolit StephanieDowrickwasco-founderandmanagingdirectorofTheWomen'sPressfrom1977to1982.Shehastraininginanalyticpsychotherapyandpsychosynthesis,aswellasinGestalttherapyandmaritalandindividualcounselling.--ThistextreferstoanalternatePaperbackedition.
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内容简介:
WhydoIgofromonerelationshiptoanotherwithoutfindingwhatIyearnfor?WhyamIrestlessorcriticalwiththoseIlove-anduneasywithmyowncompanywhenI'malone?Isitpossibletobeclosetosomeoneelse-andstillbemyself?Beingalone.Relatingtoothers.Bothhavethepotentialforimmensepersonalsatisfaction.Bothcanseempainfullyelusivetobalance-orachieve.AsStephanieDowrick,awriterandpsychotherapist,shows,intimacyandsolitudearenotopposingexperiences.Theyaredifferentexpressionsofoursameself.Wecannotusefullyaddressourdifficultiesinrelationshipswithoutalsoconsideringhowwespendourtimealone.Norcanwetakeon"self-awareness"inanymeaningfulwaywithoutquestioningwhatweexpectfromothers.Solitudeisaverydifferentexperiencethanloneliness,andsexisonlyonewaytoexpressintimacy.Inunderstandingour"self,"wemustexploretherolesofmenandwomen.Inunderstandinghowtocare,wecannotignorewhoandhowwedesire,andwherewelookformeaning.Bringingintimacyandsolitudetogetherallowseachofustounravelwhyweneedothersandwanttobefree;whywewanttobeunderstoodandguardoursecrets;whywewanttobeloved"forourselves"andyetmayhavedifficultyacceptingwhoweare.IntimacyandSolitudeisaself-discoverybookwithararebreadthofinsight,andagentleinsistencethatwecanandmusttakeresponsibilityforourselvesinorderfullytoexpressourcareandloveforothers.Dowrickdrawsfromawiderangeofpsychoanalyticandspiritualsourcestotracethedevelopmentofthecapacitiestobecomfortablyaloneandwithothersfrominfancyonwards.ButasDowrickemphasizesthroughavarietyofmoving,personalstoriesdrawnfromherownandothers'experiences,nomatterhowfarfromidealourearlyexperienceswere,norhowfearfulwemightatthismomentbe,totheendoflifeitremainspossibletodeveloptheself-acceptanceessentialtosolit
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作者简介:
StephanieDowrickwasco-founderandmanagingdirectorofTheWomen'sPressfrom1977to1982.Shehastraininginanalyticpsychotherapyandpsychosynthesis,aswellasinGestalttherapyandmaritalandindividualcounselling.--ThistextreferstoanalternatePaperbackedition.
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